Showoffs has been featured on a variety of TV shows over the last 30 years.
Even the shyest person has the potential to become a show-off after a few classes with performance coach, Art Nefsky. Nefsky, who studied theatre for three years at Ryerson, started Showoffs Studio for shy folk in 1987. He aims to help free people of performance anxiety and help them capture a crowd’s attention.
He has helped people perform without sweaty palms or shaky knees, “this isn’t the 10 or 12 steps of how to overcome shyness or how not to be nervous,” said Nefsky. “I just chip away at all the excuses that have made you nervous until you have no other reason to be nervous.”
“I was so nervous at first,” said Fenulla Jiwani, a 22-year-old York University student. “But all of a sudden I was engaging each person and after the show people came up to me and said that was truly amazing.”
Nefsky gives a variety of exercises to bring out his students’ personalities. He has them sing in front of the class. Then he concentrates on vocal technique.
Students concentrate on eye contact with individuals in the audience, body movement and then copy the gestures of audience members. Nefsky also provides personas for students to act out while singing — for example, a diva-superstar-bitch who has bad gas.
“It’s not about being vocally correct, it’s about having fun,” said Jiwani.
Nefsky has years of experience in the entertainment field and now he’s trying to help others fulfill their dreams.
“I had a television series hosting the monster movie of the week on CityTV. I had a night club act for years and all of a sudden I got this kick out of helping people get their own dream,” said Nefsky. He runs Showoffs Studio out of his basement, which he transformed into a cozy performing studio with a small stage, sound equipment, a video camera, lighting and seats.
Barbara Macel, 18, belted out “Criminal,” by Fiona Apple.
“I could never do that before on stage and now I can sing in front of strangers instead of friends and family.” After five classes, Macel has advanced to the second level.
“When I see someone is ready, they go on to level two,” said Nefsky. “It’s hell because you have to do whatever I say. We can be outrageous in level two. People dress up in costumes. We had a woman who came from the corporate world just for shyness, and she dressed up like Cher and started bopping away, singing ‘Believe’.” These classes are not just for people who want to be singers or actors. Nefsky has coached people as young as three and as old as 71.
I can’t sing. I simply can’t. Never could. Not even in the shower. As a child, I was kicked out of the school choir and told never to come back.
Now that I’m an adult, I think it’s time to prove my choir teacher wrong. Along with the myriad naysayers who believe my vocal cords are dubious at best. The thought of being another vocally challenged male, relegated to humming along to his favourite song on the radio, is too much for me to bear. I want more.
I want to sing in the car. At the table. In the park. The way I used to when I was too young to care how I sounded. I want to feel the freedom of belting out a song from the pit of my stomach. I want to sing to my girlfriend in bed. I want to stand tall on karaoke night and regale my friends.
I want to find my voice.
Enter: Showoffs Studio for Performers. The director, Art Nefsky, claims he can teach anyone how to sing. It’s not just a claim. It’s a promise. Nefsky has been teaching people how to sing for 15 years, combining his unique personality with a well-crafted technique rooted in improvisational comedy. His office is located in his home at Eglinton and the Allen Road.
I quickly register for a set of four classes.
At the first class, I have no idea what to expect. A cadre of people, young and old, is gathered in a modest basement studio, replete with three microphones, a keyboard, and two large speakers. Nefsky mounts the stage with the presence of a Borscht Belt comedian, and within seconds we’re all laughing and having a good time.
I find out that some participants, unlike myself, are not interested in learning how to sing. They’re interested in becoming better performers and better communicators. They believe they can grow through the art of song. It makes perfect sense to me.
One woman is a CEO of a major corporation. She wants to be more effective when giving oral presentations. One man is an actor, looking for more stage presence. Others have never performed in front of a group of people and merely wish to rise above inhibitions.
“Everyone can sing “, Nefsky tells us. “It’s just a question of removing the blocks and giving yourself permission to make mistakes.”
After a spirited introduction, it’s time to begin. My armpits start leaking like an unruly faucet. I offer to go first and get it over with. My chosen song is “Hello Again”, by Neil Diamond. It’s one that I can relate to. It’s always been my favourite.
I stand up on the stage and before I start, Nefsky informs me that he will not stop the music if I make a mistake. Not once. Even if I forget all the words. Whether I hum or whistle or just sigh loudly, I have to make it to the end on my own. It’s lesson number one: have the courage to look an audience in the eye and say “This is the best I can do. “
I begin to sing.
The words barely come out. They feel like clumps of mortar stuck to my throat. But when the song ends I feel satisfied. Liberated. It’s the type of liberation that can only come from rising above a lifelong fear. I know that if I can get up and sing in front of a group of strangers, I can do almost anything in life.
My teacher instructs me to sing it again. Only this time he gives me an exercise. I have to make eye contact with every audience member. For fifteen seconds, consecutively, before moving on to the next. “The song isn’t important at this point. I want you to keep looking at people, and don’t look away,” says Nefsky.
I sing the same song, a second time, following instructions. I feel more vulnerable. Exposed. Naked. It’s difficult but I like the feeling. I feel like I’m connecting with each person. Surprisingly, my voice sounds much better. More authentic. And I even manage to hit some of the high notes, which is a bonus.
“Lesson number two,” says Nefsky. “Make a connection with your audience and reach out with your eyes. You really don’t need to hit all the notes. People just want to have a good time and feel valued.”
Class Two. Nefsky sits in front of me on a chair, as I sing my song. He pretends to be a little kid with a short attention span, manic gestures and silly facial contortions. My job, I”m told, is to do whatever it takes to hold his interest.
My next exercise is quite different. I have to pretend to be a politician, shaking hands with every member of the audience and telling them all to vote for me. While I sing of course.
During the third class, Nefsky has me singing in gibberish, pretending to be a drunken lounge singer, and to make things really interesting, I’m told to sing “Hello Again” as Elvis Presley. The same words. The same song. Only this time, I have to give my best Elvis impersonation. The results are hilarious and the exercise forces me to have fun. Lesson number three: if you have a good time singing, the audience will as well.
The final class arrives. There is no exam. No term paper. Only a performance followed by a short oral presentation. As I sing “Hello Again,” one last time, it becomes obvious to everyone,including me, that I can actually sing and carry a tune. In just four short classes I have done what many said was impossible. I have found my voice. And I like what I’ve found. Lesson number four: choir teachers are always wrong. No, that’s not it.
Everyone can sing.
Bok! bok-BOK! There’s little room for stage fright in this industry. While almost everyone experiences “nerves” or “butterflies” before a performance, there are those of us whose butterflies feel more like seagulls. The thought of performing makes us want to run for the hills. Mouth goes dry, knees tremble, palms sweat, voice cracks. And that’s just at the thought.
As a songwriter, you can’t afford to keep your songs to yourself. But if singing in front of a crowd unnerves you, what do you do? If you’re anything like me, you panic. You see, I’m a singer who won’t sing. Well, put it this way. I only perform when the pull gets too great to ignore any longer. Whenever I’ve had a gig on stage, I’ve never been comfortable. After years of performing on and off, I’ve learned to appear calm and in control, but I don’t enjoy it very much. This has resulted in a very erratic and frustrating career. I have been aware of this stage fright for a long time, but never thought I could overcome it.
Enter Art Nefsky, acclaimed performance coach and stage fright specialist. Art is the founder and Artistic Director of Showoffs Studio in Toronto, Ontario. For the past 28 years Art (a seasoned actor, singer, and comedian) has been helping those scared to death of performing, as well as people who simply want to build confidence and increase their stage presence. He has helped singers and actors from beginner to pro. Business people who need to make presentations, People come to Art Nefsky for their own personal reasons. Art’s technique is a unique and refreshing twist to public speaking and confidence courses. It’s a singing workshop, but a natural talent for singing is not required. Some people want to have the nerve to sing at karaoke night, while others figure if they can sing in front of others, then speaking will be no problem by comparison.
Me, I want to re-open those doors I keep kicking shut and get on with my career. I’ve never met Art, but I will soon enough. I contacted Art through his online stage fright clinic on his website and told him I suffered from stage fright. To make a long story short, this snowballed and now he’s coming out to Vancouver. I am organizing The Performance Workshop, where I, Chicken Girl, along with 20 others ready to take a deep breath and have fun, will be a student.
It helps to remember that Art is a comedian. I know how great it would feel to perform with confidence and to actually have fun doing it, so I’m ready to tackle this head on. I want to live big, and performance anxiety is keeping me not only small, but hidden. I want to have fun. To loosen up and to lighten up!
I received a video tape of some of Art’s students “before” and “afters”. Holy cow, what a difference. After just a very short time with Art’s technique, these people blossomed. People who were singing to the floor, scared to death, barely audible in the “before”, were belting it out, eyes to the people, arm outstretched and faces beaming in the “after”.
Seeing that video is what convinced me and made me ask him to come to Vancouver. I figure if he can do all that with Chicken Girl, and he says he can, then count me in. You’ll know it worked when you see my name around town.